Pyar karne wala apka dil tor deta hai to kya kare ?

Jo insan apko bahut hi jada pyar karta hai agar vo hi insan apko kabhi hurt kar deta hai apka apman karne lagta hai or apke sath bura babhar karne lagta hai , to mujhe natane ki zarurt nahi ki apko bahut hi jada bura lagta hai . Kuki hum jis insan se sabse jada prem karte hai vo insan hamare liye kuch chota sa bhi kam karta hai to hum unke chote se kam se bhi Bahut hi jada fark pardta hai . Or jab insan apko hurt karta hai to apko bahut bahut jada dukh hota hai . Apki sochne or kuch samjhne ki sakti hi khatam ho jati hai . Or ap paresan ho jate ho, ki kya kiya jaye Vo aisa ku kar raha hai apke man me bahut sare sawal hote hai aise samay me logo ke pas 3 raste hote hai or log 3 rasto me se 1 raste Ko pasand karte hai . Mai apko batunga ki vo 3 raste kon se hai or apko kon sa rasta pasand karna cahiye . 1.) same reaction : Ye sabse asan tarika hai jab apka partner apke sath kuch bura babhar karta hai to ap bhi uske samne aisa hi babhar kar dete ho kuch log bilkul bhi soche samjhe bina uske samne aisa hi babhar karte hai kuki unhe lagta hai ki mai unhe itna pyar karta hu fir bhi vo mere sath aisa babhar kaise kar sakta hai / ya kar sakti hai . Unhe is bat ka barda gussa hota hai or is liye vo uske sath same aisa hi karna thik samjhte hai . Aisa karne se dono ko nuksan hota hai , ye bat thik hai ki unhe apke sath aisa babhar nahi karna cahiye tha . Par agar ap bhi uske samne aisa hi babhar karte ho to ap dono me kuch fark nahi rahta . Jab dono hi samne samne aa jate hai to relationship kharab hona pakka hai Yaha par ye hota hai ki apke partner ne apke uper ek gandi chiz feki apko bura laga apko gussa aya to apne kya kiya ? Apne us gandi chiz ko uthaya or wapis unki uper hi fek diya ab dono hi ek dusre ke harket se paresan jo jate hai 2.) khud hi dukhi ho jana : Jab apka partner apke sath bura babhar karta hai to apko uski aisi harket se bahut barda sadma lagta hai apko aghat lagta hai ki kya apke pyar ne hi apke sath aisa babhar kiya hai ap haqket or apni ankho par bhi biswas nahi karte . Lekin yaha par apki halat bahut jada kharab ho jati hai ap bahut hi jada dukhi ho jate ho apne partner ke is harket ke karan par fir bhi ap apne partner ko kuch bhi kahte nahi ,nahi unse ladte ho or nahi unke samne palat kar war karte ho ap bhagwan shiv ki tarah sara zehar pee jate ho saccha prem karne waka insan apne partner ke dwara kiya gaya aise babhar ko shiv ki tarah pee jata hai lekin unke andar dard to sabse jada hota hai Yaha par apne kya kiya ki jab apke partner ne apni or se koi urza feki to apne use apne andar utar liya bahar nahi ane diya aisa karne se apko dard to hua par vo urza ek jagah par ruk gaya koi jhagra kuch age nahi bardha . Bharat me aisi bahut sari ladki / ladka hai jo apne boyfriend / girlfriend ki harkato ko sah leti / sah leta hai kuki vo nahi cahata ki rista or kharab ho ya bat or age bardhe . Ab mai in dono rasto se uper ke rasto ke bare me batana cahta hu jaha par na to apne partner ke sath ladna hai or na hi apko kisi zehar ko pee jana hai Apko sirf sochna hai ki apke partner ne aisa kiya hi ku ? 3.) apke partner ne aisa kyou kiya : Jab apka partner apko hurapke partner ne t karta hai to apko sochna cahiye ki apke partner ne apko hurt kiya hi ku . Iska karan ho sakta hai apko na uske sath jhagra karne ki zarurt hai or na hi rone ki zarurt hai apko sirf or sirf ye dekhne ki zarurt hai ki aisa to kya karan hai ki jo apse pyar karti hai vo apko khud hurt karne par uter gaya . Agar ap is tarah se sochoge to apko iska sahi karan pata chalega ki apke partner ke jeevan me kuch to aisa hai jiske karan apko hurt kiya Apko ye sab isliye sochna cahiye kuki kahi na kahi apka partner khud dukhi hai is liye to apko vo dukh de raha hai kahi bar aisa hota hai ki jab apka partner apki uoer shak karta hai to apko bahut hi jada bura lagta hai ki vo apke sacche pyar par shak ku kar raha hai Par haquket aisi bhi ho sakti hai ki vo apko khone se itna jada dar gayi ho Isliye vo apke uper bar bar shak karne lage ho agar apko ye haquket pata hi na hoti to apke liye ek achi bat bhi buri ho sakti thi . Agar is tarah se apne partner ke dwara jo kuch bhi apki oor feka gaya tha apne usko puri tarah se badal diya hai Ek negativ energy ko positive energy me badal diya hai apke gusse ko shanti me badal diya hai nafrat ko pyar me badal diya hai . Kuki apko jab samajh me ata hai ki apka partner kisi paresani ke karan aisa kar raha hai to aap unki paresani ke liye unki madad karenge or jab unki paresani khatam ho jati hai to vo sirf apko pyar dega nafrat nahi . Dosto mai ummid karta hu ki apko meri ye post pasand ayi hogi apko ye post kaisi lagi mujhe comment me zarur batana or is post ko apne dosto ke sath share bhi zarur karna Thanku. By- Ritesh raj