Pyar me dil tuta to aap lucky hai .

Bahut sare log mujhe coment karte hai.
To jayada tar log mujhe batate hai ki aaj ke samay me oyar jaisa kuch hota hi nahi hai .
Log sirf apne matlab or time pass ke liye relation banate hai .
Or ache logo ki feeling ko hurt karte hai .
Aaj jayada tar logo ka nazariya aisa hi hai
Par ye log aisa soch rahe hai unka ek karan ye bhi hai ki unko pyar me dhokha mila hai or is liye unhe lagta hai ki puri duniya ki haqeqt yahi hai .
Par ye bat puri tarah se sach nahi hai ki puri duniya me sirf bure log hi hai .
Aisa bhi nahi ki sacha pyar nahi hai ,duniya me sab kuch hota hai lekin hume dikhta wohi hai jiska humne anuvab kiya hota hai.
Ab zahir si bat hai ki jin logo ko pyar me dhokha mila hai .
Unka nazariya hi aisa ban jata hai
Mera maqsad yahi hai ki mai apko batana cahunga ki life me bahut sare log ko pyar me dhokha q milta hai .
Or kuch logo ka prem safal q  rahta hai
Apne kai bar aisa suna hoga ki hamate sath jo bhi hota hai vo hamare bhale ke liye hi hota hai
To hame pyar me dhokha milta hai
Hume bahut jada bura lagta hai
Isme kya hamari koi bhalayi ho sakti hai ?
Ha agar apko pyar me dhokha mila hai .
Apka bhi dil tuta hai to ap lucky ho .
Kuki hamara jeevan hamari niyati ke sath chalti hai aoki niyati me ye palhe se hi tay hota hai ki apko ye dukh sahen karna pare .
Pyar hone ke karan hi apko dukh tak pouchna hota hai or dukh ka ane ke karan
Apko kahi or pouchana ka hota hai . Lekin ye jo bhi ho apke bhale ke liye yani ki apki achai ke liye hi hota hai
1) jisne apko dhokha diya unka koi dos nahi?
Hume ye bhi samajh lena cahiye ki apki life me jo kuch bhi hua hai vo kisi ek khas maqsad ke liye hua hai .
Isme kisi ka koi dos nahi hota hai na hi apko or nahi us insaan ka jisne apko dhokha diya hai .
Kuki agar vo insan hi na hota  to apko kisi or se pyar hota koi or apko dhokha deta kuki ye apki niyati me likha hai or ye apke sath hona hi hai ..
Jisne apko dhokha diya vo to mehaj ek jariya tha apko yaha tak pouchane ka or vo hi ku, aisa sawal apke man me ata hai to unka jabab ye hai ki vo apne karmo ke karan apko dukh pouchne ata hai
Or uske bad uska roll pura ho jata hai .
Hame use dhanybad dena cahiye kuki usne hume hamari niyati me madad ki hai.
2) is ghatna se apko kya sikhna cahiye ?
Apke sath jo bhi kuch hua hai vo apko sikhane ke liye hi hua hai zaruri nahi ki apko pyar me hi dukh mile par agar apko jeevan me kisi bhi tarah se bahut jada taqlif milti hai to uska kuch matlab hota hai .
Ki vo apko kuch sikhana cahata hai
Apko ek alag or naya rasta dikhana cahata hai .
Kudrat hamesha apke liye ek aisa radta chunte hai jo apke liye sahi hote hai par aise raste par chalna hamesha muskil hote hai hame ye manna cahiye ki sayed hamare liye kuch or hoga jo hume ye sab hone ke bad hi mil sakta hai
Bahut jada usse bhi jada jo apne khoya hai .
Duniya me pyar me dil tutne ke bad bahut sare logo ki zindagi puri tarah se badal jati hai vo palhe se jada better ho jate hai agar vo is ghatna ko apne liye bure na samajhte to ,logo ko better tarike se janne lagte .
Iske bad apko koi acha insan milega to ap uski value karna sikh loge is dard ke bad apko samajh me ayega ki taqlif kis chizz ko kahte hai is liye kabhi ap apne partner ko dhokha nahi do nahi to samajh me ayega ki kisi ko dhokha dena dard dena kitna asan hota hai par pyar ko nibhana kitna muskil hota hai .
Iske bad apko sukh or fuk ki value samajhe ayegi iske bad ap ache logo se milke palhe se jada khush ho jaoge .
Or apne jeevan me apne partner ko bahut hi achi tarah se samajh paoge.
By - Ritesh raj