Callage ki ladki ko kaise pataye !

Hello friends, Aap kisi bhi collage me chale jao , apko har collage me do subject free me lene hi pardte hai dosti or pyar ka subject. Har koi collage me jaker apni ek Girlfriend banana cahata hai.or jadatar love Story me collage wali Love story jada pasand hoti hai . Waise to collage me bahut sari ladkiya hoti hai , lekin unhi ladkiyo me se kuch khaas ladkiya hoti hai jinki uper collage ke sare ladke ki nazar hoti hai . Par paresani wali bat ye hai ki ye ladkiya na to jadatar ladko se bat karna pasand karti hai or na hi kisi ko bhov deti hai. Pardhne me sabse age hoti hai or bahut hi jada bhubsurat bla hoti hai. Aisi ladkiya har collage me hi hoti hai or collage ka har ladka aisi ladki ko patana cahata hai. Ladko ko lagta hai ki aisi ladki ko sirf kismat wala ladka hi pata sakta hai. Par apko yaha par paresan hone ki zarurt nahi hai. Kuki mai apko sikhunga ki kese karke ap aisi ladki ko bhi bade hi asani se pata sakte ho , par uske liye apko kuch bato ko achi tarah se samjhna parega. ki akhir aisi ladkiya kaise patti hai. 1.) collage me 3 tarah ki ladkiya ati hai : 1.) jo sirf pardhne ke liye ati hai. 2.) jo sirf enjoy karne ati hai.or 3.) jo dono karne ati hai. Collage me ye 3 tarah ke ladke or ladkiya hoti hai jo sirf masti or enjoy karne ati hai Vo aisa hi karenge dono karne ate hai. Vo bhi sab kuch karte hai lekin palhe tipe ki ladkiya hoti hai, vo kisi ladke par apna dhyan nahi deti. Kuki uske hisab se collage ke jo 3,4 saal hote hai vo sirf apne CAREER ko banane ke liye bahut hi important hote hai. Jo log apne time ko waste karte hai.or sirf enjoy karte hai , aise logo se ye ladkiya dur hi rahti hai or unhe lagta hi ki ye log apni Life ko kharab kar rahe hai. Isliye aisi ladkiya awara ladko se to jadatar dur rehna pasand karti hai. aisi ladkiyo ko bhi ladke pasand hote hai unko bhi dost ya boyfriend banana acha hi lagta hai. Par paresani ye hai ki , unko faltu lagte hai Vo log jo apni studdy ko unki tarah serious nahi lete. To akhir aisi ladkiyo ko kaise pataya ja sakta hai ? Sirf or sirf unke jaise log hi aisi ladkiyo ka biswas jeet sakte hai. 2.) Unke jaisa dikhne ki koshis karo : Unko khud ke jaise log jo bahut hi jada mehnati ho jo apni life or career ko leke bahut jada serious hote hai aise log unhe pasand ate hai. Jadatar aisi ladkiya khud ko hi apni favourite manti hai. Kuki baki sab log to unhe bebkuf lagte hai . Sayed ap caha kar bhi unke jitne mehnati to ban nahi sakte, lekin agar sirf aisa unhe dikha bhi sakte ho ki ap unhi ki tarah aap mehnati insan ho or age bardhne ke liye ap unki help lete ho, to apka kam barde hi asani se ho jayega. 3.)Unhi se sikhna suru karo : Apke liye bahut sawal honge ki ap Us ladki se bat kaise karoge ? Or kaise us ladki ke sath apni dosti karoge ? To apko unse bat ki surwat me dhyan rakhna parega, kuki agar ap unke samne faltu ka koi sawal ya bat karte ho, to vo apko foran bhaga degi, Bat ki surwat me ap unse , unki copy mang sakte hai. Thore time ke liye apko sirf copy hi leni hai. Jab ap unko copy wapis karte ho, to unko Thanks bolne ke sath sath unke kam ki tarif zarur kare.jaise ki unke writing ke bare me etc. Lekin kabhi bhi apko us ladki ki khubsurti ki tarif nahi karni cahiye. Kuki aisi ladkiyo ki khubsurti ki ap tarif karte ho to unhe appe shak hoga par ap unke kam ka tarif karte ho to unhe jada acha lagta hai ki jo unhe pasand hai apne uski tarif ki dhire dhire ap us ladki se kisi subject me kuch samjhne ke liye help mang sakte ho. Ladki ko aisa lagna cahiye ki unki wajah se ap bhi sikh rahe ho apko unki wajah se help ho rahi hai. Aisi ladkiyo ko bahut hi acha lagta hai. Jab koi unse help mangta hai to unhe bhi lagega ki ap unki respect karte ho isliye to ap unse sikhte ho. Apko unhe batana cahiye ki kese unki wajahbse apko help mil rahi hai. Aapko unke sikhne ke style se jada better tarike se sikhne ko milta hai. Sath sath me apko unki aisi tarif karni cahiye ki vo ek samjhdar or sabse alag ladki hai. career or life ke bare me unka jo sochna hai wohi sahi mayne me sahi hai. Thore time me ap dono ki dosti ho jayegi uske bad ap kese bhi karke apni galat adato ke bare me use bata sakte hai.jaise sigrate pina jo bhi ho kuki ab ladki ko aisa lagne lagga ki unki wajah se apki life better ho rahi hai or apki ye sab adate churdane ke liye vo apko samjhyegi. Jis tarah se vo ladki apke sath jitna jada time spend karti hai. apko sikhne ke liye ya apki adate churdane ke liye. Uske bad ap dono ek dusre ke liye bahut sari adate apni mind me Create kar lete ho. Ab ladki ke liye asan nahi rahega apse dur rehna. 4.) Dhyan rakhe : Apko in bato ka bahut hi achi tarah se dhyan rakhna parega, ki kabhi bhi ladki ko apki uper shak na ho jaye ki ap ku uske sath dosti karna cahate ho or uski help ku le rahe ho Agar ladki ko apke uper shak ho jayega to vo apke sath bat karna bhi pasand nahi karegi. Kabhi bhi uske smne firlt karne ki koshis na kare. Unki khubsurti ki tarif bhi karna apke liye mehnga pard sakta hai.agar apko unki tarif hi karni hai to uski kam ki or uski mehnat ki karo. Ap dono me achi dosti ho jane ke bad ap us ladki ko dusri ladkiyo ki tarah propose kar sakte ho.kuki tab tak ke liye us ladki ke liye ap ek adat ban gaye hote ho. Ho sakta hai ki propose karne par vo apko mana kare par vo apse alag nahi rah sakti. Ignore karne par vo man hi jayegi. Dosto mai ummid karta hu ki apki class ki ladki patane me meri ye post madad karegi apko ye post kesi lagi comment karke zarur batana or apne dosto ke sth bhi ye post share zarur karna, Thanks. By- Ritesh Raj