Kisi ko apne pyar me deewana kaise banaye , part 2
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2.) Lage rahne ki galti mat karo:
Jab tumne use apne dikhabe se itna to impress kar liya hota hai.ki tumhare uske sath bat chit suru ho jati hai. Or jadatar log yahi par galti karte hai. Ki jaise unko manpasand insan ka no mil jata hai. Or vo uske sath din rat bat karne me lag jate hai.to mai aapko yaha par bhi kahna cahata hu. Ki bat karna bhi bahut zaruri hai.kuki bat karne se hi to bat banti hai. Par vo bhi limit me bat karni cahiye , agar ap jada bat karte ho , to ye apki bahut badi galti hai.
Jab aap us insan ke sathlagatar bat karne lagte ho. Kuki tumhe unke sath bat karna acha lagta hai. Usi tarah us insan ko apke sath bat karna acha lagta hai.
Lagatar bat karne ke karan. Uska jo tumhare sath bat karne ka trib iccha hoti hai. Vo dhire dhire kam ho jati hai.
Is liye tumhe soch samjh kar unse bat karni cahiye. Kuki agar tu thore samay ke liye hi unhe akela nahi choroge. To unhe tumhari yaad kaise ayegi. Vo tumhre liye tarpenge kaise.
Jab tumhri uske sath bat hoti hai to ek - do din ke liye bat karo. Bahut jada bat karo aisi bat karo. Jo uske dil ko chu jaye. Unhe tumhre sath bat karne me bahut maza aa jaye. Or vo dil se bol uthe ki wah is insan se bat karke maza aa gaya.
Par thori si apni bato se unhe impress karke bat band kardo. Tab vo jada tumhri or attract honge.tumhre liye unke andar ek tarap paida ho jayegi .
3.) uski kamzori ko dhundo:
Jab mai logo se ketha hu ki uski koi kamjori ko dhundo to , log mujhse kethe hai . Ki mera partner to bahut hai jada smart hai. Usme koi kamjori nahi hai. To mai apko batana cahta hu. Ki har insan me koi na koi kamjori hoti hai. Or insan apni is kamjori se paresan hota hai. Unke jeevan me kuch to aisa hoga. Jiske karan vo dukhi hoga or aisa kuch jo unhe pasand nahi hota.
Tumhe unki kamjori nahi dikh rahi hai. To iska ek hi matlab hai. Ki tum unse prabhavit ho. Tumne use dhyan se pardha nahi.
Dekho usko pardho kuch na kuch to zarur mil jayega.
Uski kamjori ko dhundh kar kya karoge? Apko uski kamjori ka koi fayda nahi uthana hai. Apko to uski jeevan ki kisi paresani me unhe madad karna hai.ho sakta hai ki uske jeevan me sab kuch sahi ho. Par unke ghar walo ke sath uski kuch banti nahi ho.
Or is bat se vo hamesha dukhi rahta ho.
To is mamle me tumhe unki madad karni cahiye.ki kese vo apne gharwalo ke sath fir se better tarike se jurd sakta hai.agar ap unhe koi madad bhi nahi kar rahe hai to sirf uski paresani ko suno uske dukh ko saraho aisa karne se vo tumhre par jada bishwas karega. Kuki ab tum ek aise insan ban gaye ho jiske sath vo apne jeevan ki sabse bardi problems ke bare me bat kar sakta hai.
Or ye ek bahut hi majbut riste ke liye zaruri hota hai.
4.) uski pasand ko khud me dikho :
Mai apse itni to ummid karta hi ki apne uski bare me palhe sab kuch janne ki koshis to kari hi hogi.jese kya chize unhe bahut jada pasand hai. Kis bat se unhe nafrat hai.
Vo kya kam karta hai. Ye to bahut sadharan bate hai.jo apko palhe hi jan leni hoti hai. Kuki jab apke unke sath bate ho to unko impress karne ke liye unke bare me ye informance apko bahut jada madad karta hai.jab apko pata hota hai ki unki kya kya pasand hai to apke liye asan ho jata hai ye sochna ki unki konsi konsi pasand ko ap apne sath jord sakte ho.vo kaise karna hai vo mai apko bad me batata hu.isse palhe mai apko ye batana cahata hu. Ki isse apko kya fayda hoga.
Jaise ki agar mai jis ladki ko impress karna cahata hu.usko book pardhna bahut hi jada pasand hai.to mai usko batunga ki mai bhi book pardhna karta hu par mujhe utni acchi tarah se patdhna nahi ata. To kya hoga vo kahegi acha mrre sath aao kabhi book pardnhe mai sikhungi.
Ye ho sakta hai ki mujhe uske sath pardhne ka mouka mil jaye or ab mai uske sath jada se jada pardhai ke nare me bate karunga kuki vo uski pasand hai.kuki vo uski pasand hai to zahir si bat hai.ki use bhi pardhai par bat karna jada acha lagega .
Iske karan usko lagne lagega . Ki hum dono ek jaise hai
Dhire dhire log us insan ke sath jurdne ki koshis karne lagta hai. Jo uske jaise hota hai or hamre jaise logo ke sath hi hum jada rahna pasand karte hai . Ek taraf ki chizo ko pasand karne wale log ek dusre ko jada better tarike se samjh sakte hai.or aksar aise logo me pyar bhi ho jata hai. Maine aisi bate kahi bar suni hai.ki samajshatr ki student ko samajshatr ke profrsar se prem ho gaya. Or un dono ne sadhi kar li.
Jada tanis khelne wali khiladi or unke coach ne shadi karli. In sab me ek bat comon hoti hai. Ki dono ko kisi ek khaas chiz se pyar hoti hai. Or dhire dhire apne kisi khaas chiz ka prem dono ka ho jata hai.
To dosto kesi lagi meri ye post hume comment karke zarur batana or apne dosto ke sath share zarur karna. Thanks
By- Ritesh Raj,
2.) Lage rahne ki galti mat karo:
Jab tumne use apne dikhabe se itna to impress kar liya hota hai.ki tumhare uske sath bat chit suru ho jati hai. Or jadatar log yahi par galti karte hai. Ki jaise unko manpasand insan ka no mil jata hai. Or vo uske sath din rat bat karne me lag jate hai.to mai aapko yaha par bhi kahna cahata hu. Ki bat karna bhi bahut zaruri hai.kuki bat karne se hi to bat banti hai. Par vo bhi limit me bat karni cahiye , agar ap jada bat karte ho , to ye apki bahut badi galti hai.
Jab aap us insan ke sathlagatar bat karne lagte ho. Kuki tumhe unke sath bat karna acha lagta hai. Usi tarah us insan ko apke sath bat karna acha lagta hai.
Lagatar bat karne ke karan. Uska jo tumhare sath bat karne ka trib iccha hoti hai. Vo dhire dhire kam ho jati hai.
Is liye tumhe soch samjh kar unse bat karni cahiye. Kuki agar tu thore samay ke liye hi unhe akela nahi choroge. To unhe tumhari yaad kaise ayegi. Vo tumhre liye tarpenge kaise.
Jab tumhri uske sath bat hoti hai to ek - do din ke liye bat karo. Bahut jada bat karo aisi bat karo. Jo uske dil ko chu jaye. Unhe tumhre sath bat karne me bahut maza aa jaye. Or vo dil se bol uthe ki wah is insan se bat karke maza aa gaya.
Par thori si apni bato se unhe impress karke bat band kardo. Tab vo jada tumhri or attract honge.tumhre liye unke andar ek tarap paida ho jayegi .
3.) uski kamzori ko dhundo:
Jab mai logo se ketha hu ki uski koi kamjori ko dhundo to , log mujhse kethe hai . Ki mera partner to bahut hai jada smart hai. Usme koi kamjori nahi hai. To mai apko batana cahta hu. Ki har insan me koi na koi kamjori hoti hai. Or insan apni is kamjori se paresan hota hai. Unke jeevan me kuch to aisa hoga. Jiske karan vo dukhi hoga or aisa kuch jo unhe pasand nahi hota.
Tumhe unki kamjori nahi dikh rahi hai. To iska ek hi matlab hai. Ki tum unse prabhavit ho. Tumne use dhyan se pardha nahi.
Dekho usko pardho kuch na kuch to zarur mil jayega.
Uski kamjori ko dhundh kar kya karoge? Apko uski kamjori ka koi fayda nahi uthana hai. Apko to uski jeevan ki kisi paresani me unhe madad karna hai.ho sakta hai ki uske jeevan me sab kuch sahi ho. Par unke ghar walo ke sath uski kuch banti nahi ho.
Or is bat se vo hamesha dukhi rahta ho.
To is mamle me tumhe unki madad karni cahiye.ki kese vo apne gharwalo ke sath fir se better tarike se jurd sakta hai.agar ap unhe koi madad bhi nahi kar rahe hai to sirf uski paresani ko suno uske dukh ko saraho aisa karne se vo tumhre par jada bishwas karega. Kuki ab tum ek aise insan ban gaye ho jiske sath vo apne jeevan ki sabse bardi problems ke bare me bat kar sakta hai.
Or ye ek bahut hi majbut riste ke liye zaruri hota hai.
4.) uski pasand ko khud me dikho :
Mai apse itni to ummid karta hi ki apne uski bare me palhe sab kuch janne ki koshis to kari hi hogi.jese kya chize unhe bahut jada pasand hai. Kis bat se unhe nafrat hai.
Vo kya kam karta hai. Ye to bahut sadharan bate hai.jo apko palhe hi jan leni hoti hai. Kuki jab apke unke sath bate ho to unko impress karne ke liye unke bare me ye informance apko bahut jada madad karta hai.jab apko pata hota hai ki unki kya kya pasand hai to apke liye asan ho jata hai ye sochna ki unki konsi konsi pasand ko ap apne sath jord sakte ho.vo kaise karna hai vo mai apko bad me batata hu.isse palhe mai apko ye batana cahata hu. Ki isse apko kya fayda hoga.
Jaise ki agar mai jis ladki ko impress karna cahata hu.usko book pardhna bahut hi jada pasand hai.to mai usko batunga ki mai bhi book pardhna karta hu par mujhe utni acchi tarah se patdhna nahi ata. To kya hoga vo kahegi acha mrre sath aao kabhi book pardnhe mai sikhungi.
Ye ho sakta hai ki mujhe uske sath pardhne ka mouka mil jaye or ab mai uske sath jada se jada pardhai ke nare me bate karunga kuki vo uski pasand hai.kuki vo uski pasand hai to zahir si bat hai.ki use bhi pardhai par bat karna jada acha lagega .
Iske karan usko lagne lagega . Ki hum dono ek jaise hai
Dhire dhire log us insan ke sath jurdne ki koshis karne lagta hai. Jo uske jaise hota hai or hamre jaise logo ke sath hi hum jada rahna pasand karte hai . Ek taraf ki chizo ko pasand karne wale log ek dusre ko jada better tarike se samjh sakte hai.or aksar aise logo me pyar bhi ho jata hai. Maine aisi bate kahi bar suni hai.ki samajshatr ki student ko samajshatr ke profrsar se prem ho gaya. Or un dono ne sadhi kar li.
Jada tanis khelne wali khiladi or unke coach ne shadi karli. In sab me ek bat comon hoti hai. Ki dono ko kisi ek khaas chiz se pyar hoti hai. Or dhire dhire apne kisi khaas chiz ka prem dono ka ho jata hai.
To dosto kesi lagi meri ye post hume comment karke zarur batana or apne dosto ke sath share zarur karna. Thanks
By- Ritesh Raj,
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