Khud ki value banaye ki boyfriens hamesa repcet karega !

Girlfriend ya boyfriend ka relation ho ya husband / wife ka relation ho relationship me khushiya tabhi hoti hai jab telationship puri tarah se Stable ho jadatar relationship agar sirf ek taraf se pyar or care or recpect hoti hai or dusri taraf se kuch nahi hota hai to aisa relation Stable relation hai bilkul nahi? Kahi bar aisa hota hai ki ladkiyo ko uska boyfriend oyar or care to thik or recpect ke sath bat bhi nahi karta fir aisa ku hita hai. Ki vo aise relationship me rahna cahati hai Kuki vo unse pyar karti hai uske sath rahna cahati hai. Agar ap apne relation me cahate ho ki apka boyfriend bhi apko pyar kare to apko relationship ko palhe stable banana parega . Iske liye zaruri hai ki ap apne boyfriend ke samne apni value bardhaye kuki agar apka boyfriend apki value or recpect karega tabhi vo apko pyar karega . Ab tak apke sath jo kuch bhi hua , par ab mai cahata hu ki ap meri in bato par amal kare sirf pardh kar bhul jane se kuch nahi hoga kuki jadatar samay ap aisa hi karte ho par sahi me ap apne boyfriend se pyar cahate ho to apko ye karna hi hoga To caliye jante hai iske bare me - 1.) khud ki value ko samjho : Jab hume kisi se pyar hota hai to hum us insan ko jada recpect dete hai unhe jada pyar dete hai pyar me aisa hona bahut hi sawbhavik hai par humse galti ye hoti hai ki hum khud ko to bhul jate hai lekin khud apni value bhi bhul jate hai Hum apne apko apne partner. Ke samne chota mehsus karne lagte hai . Vo jo kahta hai hum sun lete hai jaise ki vo sab kuch hai or hum kuch bhi nahi hai aisa vo hamare sath kar rahe hai isse jada dukh ki bat ye hai ki hum khud apne liye aisa mehsus karne lagte hai or hum apne sath aisa hone dete hai . Jab hum khud apni value bhul jate hai to mujhe nahi lagta hai ki koi hamari value karega The secret book me apko iske bare me details se pata chalega ki kaise hum apne bare me jo mehsus karte hai vo apni or khich lete hai apko ye book zarur pardhni cahiye apke relatiinship ko ye kafi had tak ye thik kar sakti hai Isliye hamesa palhe khud ki value ko samjho ki ap kya ho or apka kya haq banta hai apne sath khud itna bura mat kariye 2.) demand a respect: Apke sath apka partner kaisa babhar kar raha hai Isse apko palhe pata hona cahiye ki ap apne partner ke sath kaisa babhar kar rahe ho Matlab kis tarah se pase ate ho aap unki value or respect karte ho to thik hai nahi to Palhi apko unki value or respect karni hogi kuki vo apke partner hai or duniya ka ye siddhant hai apko jo cahiye vo dusro ko dena parega . Par agar ap apne partner ko. Value dete hai par apka partner apke sath sahi tarike se bat nahi karta bat bat par apko nicha dikhne ka koshis karta hai. Apko aisa mehsus karbata hai ki ap uske samne kuch bhi nahi ho aap bilkul murkh ho Agar aisa hota ho to apne partner ke samne apni respect ki dimand karni hogi dimand karne se vo apko respect nahi dega. Apko dimand karna matlab unse kuch mangna nahi hai . Jab kabhi bhi vo apke sath galat tarah se bat karta hai apko apne partner ko saf saf bol dena cahiye ki apko aisa babhar pasand nahi hai agar fir bhi apke sath vo aisa hi karta hai to apko unki bato me dhyan nahi dena cahiye or waha se chale jana cahiye . Aise call ya msg ka replay nahi dena cahiye ye ek dimand hai Jisse apke partner ko pata chale ki apke samne uska ye sab nahi chalega 3.) kya apme aisa confindence hai ki ap apne partner ke samne us bat ko bol sake jo apke man me hai or ap unhe kahna cahte ho will kahi bar log apne partner ko kitna pyar karte hai ye bhi sahi tarah se bata nahi kar sakte to agar unke liye unke man me kuch or hai to vo kabhi bata nahi sakenge. Jaise ki apko unka babhar pasand nahi ap unhe batana cahte ho par apme itni himmat hi nahi Ki ap unke samne kuch bol sako to kya hoga..yahi hoga jo ab tak chal raha hai saf bat hai. Kahi bar him kuch action lena cahte hai lekin apne partner ke samne ap aisa isliye nahi kar sakte kuki apme aisa confidence nahi hota Jadatar problems yahi hota ki hume pata bhi hota hai ki meri relationship ki problems kya hai or iska salution kya hai par nahi kar sakte kuki itni himmat hi nahi hai Himmat karna sikho or sikhne ka sabse best tarika hai ki jaise bhi karke try karo dhire dhire confidence bardhega. 4.) Don,t accept pain: Agar apka partner apke sath kaisa bhi babhar karta hai aap unki sari bato ko accept karte jate ho to hamesha apka partner apke sath aisa hi karega aap unhe jada mouke dete ho aisa karne ke liye kuki agar apka partner aoko hurt karta hai or ap chup chap apne dard ko sehan kar lete ho to sambhavna hai ki apka partner apko dusri bar bhi dard dega Apko ye pata hona cahiye ki ap sirf unke pyar ko pane ke liye un chizo ko acceot nahi kar sakti jo apko pasand hi nahi hai jo apko dard deti hai apko partner apko jo karne ko kahta hai vo ap karne ke liye tiyar ho jate ho fir apko kitna pasand hai ya nahi apka partner nahi sochega kuki unhe pata hai ki aap unke sare bato ko accept karte ho Apko aisi koi bhi bat accept nahi karni cahiye jo apko pasand nahi hai aisa karne se apko partner apke sath kuch bhi karne se palhe sochega ki kya uske sath me aisa kar sakta hu par agar unhe pata hoga ki ap koi awaz nahi uthoge to vo apke sath kuch bhi or kesa bhi karne se nahi darega. 5.) Live your own Life : Apki duniya kitni bardhi hai kabhi socha hai ki apki duniya kitni bardhi hai kahi aisa to nahi hai ki apki life sirf apka partner hi hai or apki duniya sirf apke partner ke aaspas hai Jadatar log ye galti karte hai vo iska bura result pate hai or ye pyar ke karan hota hai ki aoko apke partner ke siwa koi acha nahi lagta ap apna jadatar samay apne partner ke sath gujarna pasand karte ho Apke dost hai apki fmily hote hai par apke pas sirf apne partner ke liye hi samay hote hai dusro ke liye nahi to apka partner apke liye aisa hi sochega ki ap sirf uski sewa ke liye ho apke pas koi kam nahi hai or uske siwa koi apko bhov nahi deta to aisa karna bebkufi hogi . Apne dosto ke liye apne parivar or apna ek persnol life hona zaruri hai isse bahut jada asar parega apke relationship ke upper To dosto kaisi lagi meri ye post agar pasand ayi hogi to plzz apne dosto ke sath share zarur karna . Thanks, By Ritesh Raj